I’ve been thinking a lot lately! From very important things to the most silly things.
I realized one thing, I have impacted the life of most people that have had close contact with me, some may deny it, but this is the truth. This gives me joy, especially for relationships (friendships, romantic relationships) that have ended.
I think of them and smile because I left something positive.
Now when I meet people all I want to do is have a positive impact on their lives. I don’t care if I am appreciated, I don’t care if this person will do for me as I would do for them, I don’t care if this person is temporary, I will do my part and I will do it well.
Most of the problems I’ve had in life were as a result of expectations. Expecting people to do for me as I would do for them. I no longer live my life that way, I learnt the hard way. I don’t expect anything from anybody. I’ve been living an amazing life since I started practicing this.